Modern day feminism as a weapon fashioned against men….

In a world where feminism has gone wrong, men are left to navigate a landscape of confusion, misunderstanding, hostility and stereotyping. Feminism has gotten a bad misrepresentation . It’s been called everything from a movement against men, to a man hating club . But, is feminism really the enemy of men ?

The true meaning of feminism has been lost in translation, as the movement has been co-opted and distorted by those who seek to use it for their own ends. In this modern era, feminism has become a tool for division, rather than a force for equality.

The real definition of feminism is the advocacy of women rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes. It is simply a belief that women deserve equal social, political, and economic rights and freedoms such as men . This is what feminism is supposed to portray . It doesn’t mean women have more rights than men, it just aims to have equal rights as men but the modern day feminism has altered the real meaning.

Today’s feminism has morphed into something unrecognizable, with its focus shifting from equality to outright hostility towards men. Instead of bringing people together to create a more just world, this new iteration of feminism has created a culture of division and resentment. It is more focused on belittling men and putting women above men.

In our society, men are often seen as disposable and dispensable, their contributions often overlooked and undervalued. Men are expected to be tough, stoic, and always in control, which leaves little room for vulnerability or emotional expression. This societal pressure can lead to a range of issues, from mental health problems to isolation and loneliness.

The current wave of feminism has often been co-opted to be used as a weapon against men, rather than a tool for true equality. It’s become about tearing men down, rather than lifting women up. The vilification of men has become the norm, with phrases like ‘toxic masculinity’ being thrown around as if all men were inherently toxic. This isn’t healthy or productive. It only further divides the genders and prevents true progress.

It’s really hard to find a man who expresses his feelings. They all bottle up a lot of emotions because they have to be tough and not vulnerable. With the common phrase ‘ BE A MAN’.

The phrase ‘be a man’ has become a loaded and potentially damaging phrase, reinforcing harmful gender stereotypes and unrealistic expectations. Men are often expected to ‘man up’ and bottle up their emotions, leading to a host of negative consequences.

Men should be allowed to express their emotions, be vulnerable, and seek help when they need it, just as women are. They all deserve to be treated like human beings, with all the complex emotions and needs that come with that.

Society’s view of men is often shaped by stereotypes and expectations that don’t always reflect reality. For example, men are often expected to be strong, stoic, and emotionally controlled. This can lead to men feeling like they have to hide their emotions or act in a certain way to be considered “manly”. This can be a huge burden on men, who may feel like they have to deny their own humanity to fit into society’s expectations.

Men also deserve ‘ baby boy treatment ‘. They deserve to be pampered and spoiled because they do a lot and have a lot of responsibilities.

Everyone deserves to be treated with kindness and respect, regardless of their gender. Just as women should not be expected to perform certain roles simply because they are women, men should not be expected to perform roles that are traditionally associated with masculinity.

It’s definitely true that men deserve to be spoiled and pampered just as much as anyone else. Men are often expected to be stoic and emotionally detached, but that’s not realistic or healthy. Everyone deserves to feel special and loved, and there’s nothing wrong with wanting to be spoiled. After all, everyone deserves a little bit of luxury and TLC ( Tender loving care).

Men are indeed facing a lot of challenges and struggles in today’s world. There’s a lot of pressure on men to succeed financially and professionally, and to be the primary breadwinners for their families. This pressure can lead to burnout, stress, and a sense of isolation. Additionally, men are more likely to experience loneliness and isolation than women, which can have a huge impact on their mental health. It’s also important to note that men are much less likely to seek help or support for mental health issues, due to social stigma and the pressure to be “strong”.

It’s a common stereotype that women expect men to provide for them financially, even if they’re not in a committed relationship. This expectation often stems from outdated gender roles, which place men in the role of provider and protector. It’s also often rooted in the idea that women are somehow less capable of providing for themselves, which is simply untrue. This stereotype does a disservice to both men and women, as it places unfair expectations on both genders.
One of the major goals of feminism is to achieve financial independence to women. Women are not supposed to depend on men. They are meant to be independent and able to fend for themselves so they can be on equal footing with the men . If feminism is really about equality, then I think women should also have the same independence a man has with his finance. It is rare to see men depending on women but why can’t it be the other way around. Give men breathing space ‘ LET THE MEN BREATHE’

This issue of independence has come with a lot of controversies and arguments over time. You find out that before men go into a serious relationship, they tend to ask this question: ‘What do you bring to the table?’. This particular question has brought about lot of ridiculous and unreasonable answers from women. Let’s not delve into that issue.

Men’s Day and Father’s Day are two important holidays that celebrate men and their contributions to society. However, these holidays don’t have the same level of cultural significance or widespread celebration as holidays like International Women’s Day, Mother’s day, international day for the Girl child and so on. This can be a source of frustration or disappointment for men, who may feel like their accomplishments and contributions aren’t being recognized in the same way. It’s important to note that this isn’t necessarily the fault of women, but rather a reflection of the way that society has historically valued and celebrated women less than men.
I feel like there needs to be more holidays and events that celebrate men and boys .

We need to move past the hatred and anger, and work towards a future where both men and women are treated with respect and equality. The fight for gender equality is far from over and there’s still a lot of work to be done. Sometimes, we forget that gender equality isn’t just about women’s rights . It’s about creating a world where everyone feels valued and respected regardless of who they are and what they look like.

In fact, feminism can actually help men by promoting a more positive view of masculinity and helping to challenge harmful gender roles. “Be a man” is not the only thing we should be teaching boys and men. They should also be taught that it’s okay to be vulnerable, to show emotions, and to ask for help when they need it. Telling men to “man up” reinforces harmful gender stereotypes and discourages them from expressing themselves. Instead, we should encourage men to be emotionally honest and to reach out for support when they need it. By normalizing this behavior, we can help each other lead healthier and happier lives in our society.

Till I write again… Thank you for reading ❤️❤️

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